How to make your dog happy at home

It’s no secret that dogs are sociable creatures who are happiest being with others and having something to do. Not to get overly philosophical, but everyone needs a purpose.

Plus, dogs are like toddlers. If you don’t give them a constructive focus, they’ll find ways to entertain themselves, such as pulling all of the stuffing out of each cushion on your new couch, or enjoying four or five shoes -- each from a different pair. Not that we’ve had any experience with such things…

If you work from home or have the opportunity to take your dog to work with you, then you’re fortunate. But if your current lifestyle requires leaving behind Fido for long stretches of time, you’ll want to have a few tricks up your sleeve for keeping him happy and engaged.

Here are 6 Tips for Keeping Your Dog Happy While Alone

1. Safety

Obviously, safety is the first priority. Your dog won’t be happy if he gets hurt. So make sure your pup can’t reach cords to chew, harmful chemicals to drink (like bleach or antifreeze), or anything else that could pose a danger. Depending on your pup’s age and inclinations, you may choose to crate your dog when you’re away or confine him or her in a mudroom or laundry room.

A word on crates: this may make your dog feel even more pent up, so when you let him out, he may run wild -- and really, can you blame him? If this sounds like your dog, then the crate may not be the best option.

2. Physical Exercise

While every dog needs exercise, some need a LOT of exercise. Lab pups and Border collies are two such breeds that are high energy. They will need to have a positive outlet for their energy on a daily basis, or they will find their own. This may mean taking them out on an hour walk in the morning before you leave for work and another hour walk when you get home. Enlisting the aid of a midday dog walker to help both you and pup can also help maintain your sanity.

3. Mental Exercise

Interactive puzzle games, peanut butter stuffed Kongs, or other appropriate chew toys will help your dog stay engaged in something positive rather than in search of other entertainment. It’s worth experimenting with different toys to see what your dog likes best.

4. Use a Monitor

There are a variety of webcam options for monitoring your dog while you’re away. Options range from specific devices created for this purpose to configuring Skype on a home computer to see (and talk to) your dog. This will allow you to see how your dog is getting on, and if there’s a problem, you can enlist an emergency contact to help.

5. Install a Dog Door 

If you have a fenced in yard, a dog door will give your dog access to the outside when nature calls, as well as the opportunity to chase squirrels in good weather. Just make sure the fence is secure and you don’t have a dog who’s inclined to dig under it or climb over it. (Stranger things have happened….)

6. Know the Signs of Frustration or Separation Anxiety

There’s boredom, and then there are bigger issues like separation anxiety. If you’ve tried the techniques above -- including ensuring your dog gets another hour a day of exercise -- and he’s still unhappy, then you may need professional assistance to work with you as the problem can run deep.

Signs of separation anxiety include barking or whining for long stretches at a time when left alone. Frequent destruction is another sign of separation anxiety. If you suspect your dog is highly anxious, you can ask your veterinarian for suggestions.

For most dogs, however, it simply takes more exercise and socialization to be happy. A couple quick trips around the block a day and the occasional playdate aren’t enough. Would it be for you? Instead, try adding some of these tactics to your routine and see if you don’t have a happier dog.

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A dog, also known as human's best friend, is happiest when he's healthy. Ensuring your dog's physical and mental well-being means keeping him stimulated, even when you are not home. Spending time with your pup and providing him with a healthy lifestyle is key to your dog's fulfillment.

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   Give your pup a job for when you're gone and he is left alone. Dogs are bred for a specific purpose, whether it be herding or hunting, and can misbehave when these natural instincts are suppressed. [1] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source

   • Create an obstacle course in which your dog follows a scent to his favorite treats.
   • Provide him with food puzzle toys, like Kongs, to stimulate his mind.
   • Leave him with plenty of chew toys. These will not only strengthen his jaw and teeth, but also keep him from chewing up your shoes instead.
   • Hire a dog walker or someone to play with your pet while you’re away.
   • Dogs that are bored are more likely to be destructive, so giving your pup things to do when you're not around will help prevent bad behavior.[2] X Expert Source
     
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     Professional Canine Expert Expert Interview. 8 September 2020. Go to source

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   Socialize your furry friend.[3] X Expert Source

   
   Jessica Powell
   Certified Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 5 October 2021. Go to source [4] X Expert Source
   
   Osama Maghawri
   Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 9 September 2020. Go to source Keeping him isolated or at home all day can be detrimental to his emotional well-being and create fear when he finally does come in contact with other people or dogs. But always remember to take your pup’s personality into account so you know what his limits for socializing are. [5] X Research source Go to source
   • Take your dog on a walk, to the dog park, or set up play dates with other humans and their dogs. The goal is to get your dog used to being around other dogs.[6] X Expert Source
     
     Indigo Will
     Professional Canine Expert Expert Interview. 8 September 2020. Go to source
   • Have a friend, whom your dog knows and trusts, look after your pet once a week to get him used to other people.
   • If your dog has a cautious demeanor, introduce him to one dog at a time, and only if the other dog is calm and won't frighten your pup. [7] X Trustworthy Source Animal Humane Society Leading animal welfare nonprofit organization providing medical care, training education, and resources for animal owners Go to source

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   Train your dog.[8] X Expert Source

   
   Jessica Powell
   Certified Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 5 October 2021. Go to source This will not only increase his mental stimulation, but also strengthen the bond between you and your pooch by making your expectations for him clear.[9] X Expert Source
   
   Osama Maghawri
   Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 9 September 2020. Go to source If you aren’t sure what training would benefit your dog most, contact a Certified Pet Dog Trainer. [10] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source

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   Establish yourself as pack leader and never waiver. It’s important to show your dog love and affection, but he is a tribal animal above all else. Your pooch will become confused without structure and consistency in his life, so be sure you stick to your role. [11] X Research source Go to source

   • Playtime is only for when he is calm and receptive.
   • Reward your pup with special treats when he has followed your directions.
   • During walks your dog should be next to or behind you.

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   Remain calm and assertive around your dog. Never behave uneasy or anxious. Because you are the pack leader, these feelings are sure to rub off on your pet.

   • Nervous animals are more likely to be aggressive. [12] X Research source Go to source

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   Maintain your dog’s confidence. Believe it or not, your pup does have self-esteem, and there are things that you, as his owner, can do to keep it up. Praise your dog when he has mastered a new trick, along with other accomplishments.

   • Remember that your tone of voice is the key to communication with your pet; praise for him should sound different than a command[13] X Research source Go to source

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   Keep your pup active. Especially if he is alone all day, a dog needs exercise just like people do.[14] X Expert Source

   
   Osama Maghawri
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   Jessica Powell
   Certified Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 5 October 2021. Go to source Take your dog on a walk around the block or play a fun, interactive game with him. [16] X Research source Go to source
   • Hide and seek will stimulate your pet’s mind and body.
   • If you have a high-energy breed, your dog could benefit from an agility class, which may be offered through your local shelter.
   • A puppy is especially precocious, so active games like tug-of-war and fetch will burn some energy and help to socialize him. [17] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source
   • For an older dog with stiff joints, water activities are a safe, low impact source of exercise.
   • If you have a small dog, consider finding a dog park that has specified areas where your pet can socialize with pup's his own size and temperament so you don't have to be skeptical of his safety.

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   Feed your dog a nourishing, balanced diet. An animal is happiest when he can exercise, and to do so, he must eat healthful food. What you feed your pooch depends on his age, energy level and potential allergies. Organic, grain free kibble is always best if you are going to go the commercial route. However, some veterinarians also swear by feeding dogs "people food". Dog-approved people foods include:

   • Raw, unsalted peanut butter
   • Baby carrots
   • Pumpkin
   • Green beans
   • Sliced apples
   • Oatmeal [18] X Research source Go to source

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   Schedule regular veterinary appointments for your pet. The vet will provide an overall health screening, as well as any vaccinations your dog might need. It's best for puppies and older dogs to visit every six months, while once a year is adequate for adult dogs under the age of ten. [19] X Research source Go to source

   • This visit can also help you determine methods for keeping your dog’s ears and teeth clean, along with any other hygiene concerns.

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   Ensure your dog’s safety at all times. This includes making sure he has an ID tag on him, a fenced yard that will keep him safe from potential predators, and plenty of shade and water if he’s outside during warm weather.

   • Make sure your dog is securely fastened or confined during car trips and never let his head hang out of the window where he could be hit by airborne objects or thrown from the vehicle. [20] X Research source Go to source
   • Unless your dog is extremely well trained, leashing him when outside the yard is important, especially if you’re in a high traffic area.
   • Kids should always be supervised around a dog; young children should also never be allowed to hold a small dog as they can accidentally drop or injure him.[21] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source

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   Give your pup regular massages. This will bring down his stress levels and soothe any joint pain he may be experiencing.

   • A slow rub down that reaches the muscle, fat and bones can work wonders to calm a nervous dog.
   • Daily massages can prolong the length and quality of your canine’s life.
   • Rubbing your dog’s joints can prepare him for physical activity and help him to unwind directly after.[22] X Research source Go to source
   • Great Danes and Mastiffs are especially prone to arthritis, so aside from a daily massage, nutritional supplements can be considered to keep these breeds healthy and pain free. [23] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source

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   Be sure to brush, comb, and trim your Golden Retriever’s coat regularly. Your Golden is especially prone to allergies and matting of his thick coat. Keeping his fur clean will help his skin from getting itchy and also better serve as insulation during the hot summer and cold winter. [24] X Research source Go to source

   • As a bonus, he won’t shed quite as much on your furniture.
   • Pay special attention to the feathering of his tail and legs which can get tangled easily, causing your Golden discomfort.

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   Set aside at least two hours a day to give your Pit Bull attention. While this breed is known for his loyalty and devotion, he needs a lot of quality time with you so he doesn’t get bored and destructive. [25] X Research source Go to source

   • The high-energy Pit Bull isn’t the type you can leave alone or put outside for the entire day.
   • This athletic breed enjoys swimming, running, playing fetch or frisbee, along with most other sports.
   • Because he is a social butterfly, a well-trained Pit Bull appreciates human interaction, including time with your friends, family and even strangers, so be sure to get him out of the house.[26] X Expert Source
     
     Osama Maghawri
     Professional Dog Trainer Expert Interview. 9 September 2020. Go to source

3. 3

   Keep your Chihuahua warm in cold or wet weather. This must be taken seriously since the Chihuahua, like some other small breeds, has trouble regulating his own body temperature, and doesn’t have a large amount of insulating fur. [27] X Research source Go to source

   • A Chihuahua is generally content to be cuddled up on his owners lap, both for affection and warmth.
   • Investing in a sweater for your Chihuahua will help keep him from shivering when he's outside.

4. 4

   Be sure your terrier has toys with which to entertain himself, especially when left alone. While a terrier is a fairly independent dog, he does require a fair amount of exercise. This dog doesn't require your supervision all day as long as you give him the means to play safely on his own. [28] X Research source Go to source

   • If your terrier is left with nothing to occupy himself, he may resort to digging or other destructive forms of entertainment.
   • He is especially fond of other canine companionship and playtime can be beneficial for socializing terrier breeds.

• Question

  How can I help my puppy with their separation anxiety?

  
  

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  I recommend using a crate. A lot of people don't realize that puppies should be sleeping about 85% of the day, very similar to babies. They need to be taking a lot of naps so that they do not get overstimulated. Keep them in the crate to nap for about 2-3 hours, then play with them, feed them, and let them use the bathroom. After engaging with them, encourage them to go back in the crate. When you follow that structure, you can prevent behaviors like separation anxiety from happening.

• Question

  What if my dog gets bored even if I give him attention?

  Try to play one of his favorite games or give him one of his favorite toys. If he is still bored, you can make up a new game, or a give him new toy to play with. If your dog is still bored, he might just not feel like playing that day, or he might be sick. consider looking for signs of illness; if you suspect something, contact your vet.

• Question

  How can I keep my dog happy if she doesn't like toys?

  Take her out for runs and walks, spend time in nature together, give her special treats and belly rubs and pet her while she lays next to you.

• Question

  How can I make my rescued dog happy if he has been traumatized?

  Treat him as lovingly as possible. Let him sleep with you, give him lots of toys and treats, and show him that you are a loving companion.

• Question

  What do I do if my dog annoys me?

  First, get some space to calm down if you need to. Once you're calm, it would be a good idea to take time with your dog. Maybe the dog feels lonely or needs attention.

• Question

  What to do if my dog does not give eye contact?

  Earn her/his trust, because dogs only make eye contact with you if they trust you and care for you.

• Question

  What kind of toys do dogs like?

  It really depends on the dog. Some dogs love stuffed toys that squeak, while others prefer rubber toys instead. Other dogs prefer interactive toys that gets their owners playing with them, such as tug-o-war ropes, Frisbee, and balls.

• Question

  How many times a week should I walk my dog?

  You should be walking your dog 2 to 3 times each day. This will amount to 14 to 21 times each week.

• Question

  What is the point of getting a dog married?

  It's an excuse for a party and nothing much else really. It's yet another commercialized outcome of people forcing their creativity into the market place instead of allowing it to just stay a fun at-home activity. There isn't any point really, it's just whatever you make of it.

• Question

  My pet dog lost his companion. He is very sad and he keeps himself in a different world. How do I get him back to normal?

  Get another puppy. This is the best way to get over a lost pet for both dogs and humans!

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This article was co-authored by Jessica Powell. Jessica is a Certified Professional Dog Trainer and the Owner of Proud Paws Dog Training, a small business offering private coaching and in-home dog training services to dog parents across the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, California. With nearly ten years of experience, she has extensive knowledge and experience in dog behavior, effective communication techniques, animal welfare, manners training, behavioral modification, and enrichment. Jessica holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Animal Management and is also an experienced shelter professional. This article has been viewed 359,799 times.

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