Great, your newly-purchased Fleshlight has just arrived in the mail and you're ready to try it out. Before you do so, there are some things that you should take into account. This guide will cover most of them, so let's start. Show 1. First Things First
This is what your typical order will look like: A Fleshlight with a case, lube and some flyers. Before you can use your Fleshlight you are going to need to remove it from it's packaging. Inside the Fleshlights there is usually a cardboard tube, which you will need to remove in order to use it. The next step after removing the inner tube is to clean/wash your Fleshlight. Always wash your Fleshlights before using them! 2. Washing and Warming your FleshlightBefore using your Fleshlight for the first time you shoul clean it with warm water, inside and out. This will help eliminate the powder on the sleeve, although not all of it will come off the first time, this is normal.
A warm Fleshlight is much more pleasurable than a cold one, so we highly suggest you let the sleeve sit in hot water for about 10 minutes so it can heat up. You can use the bathroom sink and simply submerge the Fleshlight in the water. Do not use boiling water, heat the water till it's a little above body-temperature. Fleshlights do float, so consider placing a cup between the Fleshie and the faucet to keep it submerged. During this period, you can also place your Lube in the water in a cup for example, to also heat it up. Experiment with temperatures until you find what's perfect for you. Note: Never put your Fleshlight in the microwave. Doing so will most likely destroy/melt your Fleshlight! 3. The Final Steps
Once your Fleshlight is all warmed up and you are ready to FLy there are only a few minor things you need to keep in mind. You will need to apply lube to the Fleshlight in order to use it, FLying dry is very uncomfortable and we highly advise you against using spit or even simply water, these are not lube-replacements. You most likely got a free sample of Lube with your purchase which you can try out now. If you are using your own purchased lube make sure it is Water-Based lubricant, as using Oil-Based lubricants will damage your Fleshlight!
The last thing you should know before using your Fleshlight is the bottom end cap. The cap can screw off, and by adjusting the tightness of this cap you can adjust the amount of suction that the Fleshlight produces as you slide in and out. With the cap tightened down all the way you produce the most suction and with the cap all the way off, little to no suction. This is crucial to your enjoyment and you will have to experiment to find what suits you best. Generally, people tend to like less suction on smoother inserts for longer sessions; and higher suction for more intense sleeves for more intense sensations.
4. During your FLightThere are many different methods to actually using your Fleshlight. You can do it the manual way, just like normal masturbation where you hold the Fleshlight in your hand and masturbate that way. This way is quite enjoyable and definitely gets the job done. Some people like to "FLy Hands Free", for example by placing the Fleshlight in between a towel and pillow on the bed; wedging ("sandwiching") a Fleshlight in between a chair and their table, or a bed-mattress and a box spring or two cushions on a couch; another method would be taking a shoe and sliding the Fleshlight in it. It's all a matter of taste and trying things out. Fleshlights are great in the fact that they do not get old! You can always find new ways of experiencing them. You can also experiment using your Fleshlight without the case, some people love doing this and you can make any of the inserts incredibly tight this way if you so choose. 5. The Aftermath
Once you are finished enjoying your Fleshie it is extremely important to clean it up! We recommend you simply let warm water run through it until it is fully clear of any load, this usually takes about a minute (in each direction). It is extremely important that you do not use soap to clean your Fleshlight as it will most likely damage it! It is also recommended that you do a "deep cleanse" every month or so, by simply rinsing your Fleshlight with a little isopropyl alcohol.
Once your Fleshie has been washed, shake off any excess water and then let it dry completely in a well ventilated area before putting it away (If you cleaned the Fleshlight with rubbing alcohol it should also dry faster). If you are unable to let your Fleshlight dry off, you can always use a thin cloth or towel and slide it through the Fleshlight, sliding it until it becomes dry. When storing the Fleshlight, make sure it is still placed in a well ventilated place. If placing it back inside the case make sure that both caps on the case are off or loose so that air can flow through the insert.
You can find some other handy tricks users have come up with, like using coat hangers, over on the Official Fleshlight Forum.
You can powder the outside of the sleeve with cornstarch after each use, if you wish. This helps keep it supple and
reduces the stickiness of the sleeve.
I avoid doing it to the inside as it's difficult to clean out and it makes the lube feel grainy if not completely
rinsed out.
Whether you do it after each use is up to you. However, if you are going to store your sleeve and not use it for a
while, it is highly suggested that you powder it with cornstarch before doing so.
On a final note, it is important to note that simply using water on your Fleshlight doesn't entirely clean it, it just "sweeps" it. Using isopropyl alcohol or Fleshlight's Refresh spray will kill off any bacteria that is living inside your Fleshlight. Also remember to clean your case, not only your Fleshlight! Cases also need to be cleaned or you risk infection! You can find more information and answers to your questions over at the F.A.Q. Page. You can return most new, unopened items fulfilled by Amazon AU within 30 days of receipt of delivery for a replacement or full refund of the price you paid for the item if you change your mind - see About Replacements and About Refunds. In some cases, the nature of the item means that it is non-returnable, for example, due to hygiene/health and personal care/wellness/consumable nature of the product. In some circumstances, these items may be eligible for a refund or a replacement (for example, if you receive the wrong item due to an Amazon AU error or if the item is faulty). Please Contact Us and see About Items That Can’t Be Returned. New electronic items fulfilled by Amazon AU can be returned for change of mind, for a replacement or a full refund of the purchase cost of the item within 30 days of receipt of delivery.For information about returning faulty electronics please see Returning Faulty Items. Unless otherwise stated, original shipping fees for change of mind returns are not refunded. This change of mind return policy is in addition to, and does not affect your rights under the Australian Consumer Law including any rights you may have in respect of faulty items. To return faulty items see our Returning Faulty Items policy. For items ordered on Amazon.com.au from a seller that fulfils and ships its own inventory (also called a third party seller), any returns will be in accordance with the returns policy set by that seller (not the Amazon AU returns policies). Please see About Marketplace Returns & Refunds for details on Seller returns policies. Please see our Amazon Global Store Returns policy and Refunds policy for more information about returning Amazon Global Store items. More details: About Our Returns Policies
Now that you’ve gotten your hands on your first pocket pussy, there are a couple of things to consider. Using a Fleshlight looks simple, I know. There’s an opening on one end that needs to be filled up by your dick. Looks pretty straightforward, right? Well, not quite. While the devices themselves can be and are used on their own, no one’s stopping you from finding creative ways of making your orgasm last longer or feel better. On the contrary, if you’re someone who likes masturbathing, getting a shower mount will save you a lifetime of worries about accidentally breaking the Fleshlight if you get too rowdy. Or, maybe you’re someone who prefers stand-fucking. This is where the tripod method comes in handy. Now, for all those inexperienced guys whose first pussy experience is the pocket, a real life one feels much different. Even if you’re used to fucking women and Fleshlights, the latter will have one immediate disadvantage in that it’s never warm enough. See, when you actually go inside a vagina, it’s like getting absorbed into a warm, moist cushion. No matter what kind or how much lube you’re using, it’ll never feel like the real deal. That is, until you realize: you can warm it up! It’s not an exact science, nor is it anything revolutionary, but it hits the spot once you learn how to do it. Thankfully, you don’t have to spend a fortune on this – there are at-home inventions that will get the job done for free. Let’s go to town! Warm BathWhen I say warm, I mean warm. You don’t want to cook the toy or your dick, so stay away from boiling water at all costs. Just fill your sink with warm water, remove the sleeve from its case and pop it in to soak for 5-10 minutes. After that, rinse it with hot water (quickly) so that it retains the heat, wrap it with a towel so that the warmth stays in and apply your lube of choice. That way you’ll get both the Fleshlight and the lube warm enough to replicate the inside of a coochie. Alternatively, keep a bucket of hot water to dip your pocket pussy in and out of so you can prolong the sensation. Either way, the rule goes: warm it, lube it, pound it! Hair dryerAnother effective way of getting the Fleshlight warm enough for penetration station is by turning on the blow dry. A hair dryer is a long-lasting and pretty effective way of keeping the pocket pussy warm. It’s basically an advanced way of just blowing hot air into the sleeve. But because you’re dealing with a lot of heat at once, make sure to keep the sleeve at a safe distance – if you don’t want to end up with a melted pocket pussy! Otherwise, you can opt for the ‘cold’ setting on the hair dryer to make sure you’re not overheating the device. Just The LubeObviously, a pussy with warm wetness is the dream. Getting the sleeve and the lube warm is the closest replica to that. However, if you’re unsure about warming up the sleeve, heating up the lube on its own can be an excellent alternative! Fill a glass with hot water (or microwave it to play around with the heat you want) and put an unopened bottle of lube inside. Wait between 10-15 minutes until you see the goo get thinner in consistency and obviously hotter in touch – and voila! You’ve successfully created a pussy juice dupe! See More FleshLight Lube Products Go PremiumIn case you don’t find the idea of DIY methods attractive or just want a device designed for your pleasure, going for sleeve warmers is just the thing to do. I bought one of the first models on the market years ago – the Quickshot Sleeve Warmer. In essence, it’s just a long pole used to literally impale your Fleshlight on, which then raises the temperature, heating your toy up. The one big advantage store-bought brands have over your regular at-home products is the fact that they’re meant to be compatible with your pocket pussy as opposed to you hoping they work. Either way, upgrading at a low cost is a no-brainer! The Fleshlight Sleeve WarmerRod, meet Fleshlight. Fleshlight’s Sleeve Warmer is a 5-minute wonder product that gets the pole as warm as 105 degrees. Considering a vagina’s internal temperature during sex is around 98 degrees, it makes the experience even more realistic! The design is fairly simple – just a long pole with one power button. You just need to plug in the device and wait for the light to turn green while you put the pocket pussy on it. Once you get that metaphorical ding and the light goes out, rip your pants off, and get ready to hump! Well, not literally, and you’ve probably been going commando anyway. Anyway, this solution is great as it means there’s no risk of it melting your Fleshlight. Even more, it’ll keep it warm for at least 15 minutes, which means your body temperature will be raised enough to keep it snug for a longer time much later than any DIY method. The best part? It’s just $29.95! Conclusion – How To Warm Up A FleshlightTo put it simply, whether you’re warming up your own pocket pussies or getting devices that do them for you, heating up your Fleshlights is a good idea and should be practiced whenever possible. It brings you one step closer to the real thing, alongside the realistic skin textures on the inside. It’s what you’re aiming for when buying a Fleshlight, isn’t it? If you’re just starting out in the world of Fleshlights, maybe start with the DIY methods or even create your own. I’ve heard of everything from heat pads to placing it on a working Playstation as a way to make it cozier for your dick. Whatever your method of temperature control, make sure you’re using your fingers to touch for heat first. Or, if you don’t want the hassle of designing your own devices, just opt for the ones already available on the market! Have fun tuggin’! |