How to know if your girlfriend really loves you

When a woman loves you…

But…

How do you know she loves you?

What are the things you could expect to happen if she does?

Is she just attracted to you or she’s serious about your relationship?

What if she is shy to admit she has strong feelings for you?

Or maybe she tells you she loves you but then you are unsure if you see it?

In this post, I will give you 10 signs your girlfriend actually loves you deeply. By the end of it you will be sure about her feelings and will find out if they are true.

You know, simply because she didn’t say it yet, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. More so – even if she says she loves you, it doesn’t mean she does. There are many other things you should look into to understand how deep her love is for you.

If you find out your lady does all of these following things for you – never let her go! She is the one you should be with.

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1. When a woman loves you, she listens to you

Have you ever felt like you’re having a monologue when talking to some people? You’re annoyed, but most importantly – you feel unappreciated. It’s like the things you talk about don’t have any meaning to them. 

But that’s not how it is with your girl. She actually hears you.

And it’s not about sitting in front of you and simply listening to what you say.

She actually hears you, interacts with you, asks you questions, and suggests solutions to the problems you have. You also often get surprised by the act she “hears” everything you don’t say.

A woman who really loves you will know how important it is for you to share your thoughts with her and will appreciate everything you say.

That’s one of the best things that happen when you’re in a fulfilling relationship – you don’t have to deal with anything alone anymore.

A simple conversation could give you the power and strength you needed today and at the same time, it won’t take away your masculinity.

She opens her heart for you and truly allows your words to touch her.

In fact, after you talk to her you will feel like you are capable to do anything. Because she believes in you.

2. She tells you when you’re wrong

Do you believe that you’re always right about everything? Well, I know your answer – no one’s perfect.

Therefore, an obvious sign she loves you is when she doesn’t keep it quiet when you’re wrong.

We all do mistakes, we all have our flaws, and that’s fine. But if she just uses you and doesn’t really love you, she will not tell you if you’re wrong. In fact, she wouldn’t care if you are wrong.

At the same time, someone who truly loves you will not let you believe that you are always right. She will be there to guide you through the moments when you aren’t heading in the best direction. And that’s a good thing. Why? Because of the next sign.

3. When a woman loves you she pushes you to be more

One of the best things about being with the right person is that you both grow together.

Love isn’t just cuddles and kisses. Love means support to achieve your dreams. Love means you care about each other’s goals and you do your best to reach them, one milestone after another.

It also means that the other might believe in you more than you believe in yourself. And that’s the point when you will know if she loves you.

You might have potential you aren’t aware of, but she sees it and she knows you can do great things in life.

Therefore, she constantly motivates you to BE more. In her eyes, there are no limits before you. And that’s not because she’s in love, but because she sees things you don’t see. That’s the beauty of true love. And you know what? When a woman loves you in this way… there are truly no limits before you.

4. When a woman loves you, she’s kind to you

It’s that type of kindness you feel toward someone who’s very close to your heart. It’s the kind of care for your emotions, feelings, and love. She will touch you in a gentle way, kiss you softly and hug you with her heart. 

Your bodies will fit together perfectly. And you will know that she belongs right here, on your shoulder.

It’s all about the energy she sends towards you when talking, the care that never ends… sounds too perfect?

Well, check the next one.

5. She will never allow you to mistreat her

They say love is blind, but true love opens the eyes. And when a woman loves you, she will not be blinded by that love.

She wants the same she offers – respect, commitment, appreciation, kindness, care… simply love.

That’s why a woman who loves you will never allow you to mistreat her. She will be open and honest about it when you misbehave and show disrespect.

She loves herself enough to know she should be treated well, and this helps you respect her even more. It’s like she puts you in your place, but in a way that makes you think “Wow! That’s a woman I want to have by my side.”

6. Someone who truly loves you will show care for you

Words have power.

However, sooner or later everyone’s word should turn into action.

One of the most obvious sayings she loves you without saying it is when she shows care for you.

She simply cares about what you do, how you feel, she does small things for you that surprise you.

For example, she might remind you of someone’s birthday, so you don’t forget it, she might prepare lunch for you or send you a motivational message at the beginning of a hard day. She might come and hug you when you’re frustrated or just leave you alone when you need it.

You see, each one of us shows love in a different way. 

Gary Chapman talks more about this in his book Five Love Languages. Therefore, f you want to understand how your lady shows her love for you in a specific way, and most importantly – how you could love her in a way so she understands you – I suggest you get this little book. It’s a treasure that saves relationships from failing.

7. When a woman loves you she respects you

We already talked about respect and love, but I have to point it out as it’s often underrated.

Just because there aren’t any obvious signs of disrespect, it doesn’t mean there aren’t hidden ones. Make sure you have a look at these 10 signs of disrespect in a relationship, so you can be alerted if something’s wrong. If the girl you’re with loves you, she will respect you. Every day. No matter what. Even when you fight. Remember that.

And she will appreciate you. She will be proud of you and show off with you in front of her friends and family.

8. She makes you feel like you’re not alone anymore

When you are with someone who truly loves you, you just know you’re not alone.

Not because she said it, but because she shows it every day you spend together.

She’s next to you when you’re facing difficulties. She makes you smile even on your saddest days. She is kind, and you are aware she’s always around for you.

She hugs you and you feel her heart next to yours. That’s the moment you know she loves you and she is the one to find happiness with.

9. She shows you’re her priority

The difference between a girl who likes you and a woman who loves you is that the first one will care for you and you’ll be her priority, but she’ll never show it.

The second one though, will not only show you’re her priority, but she’ll prove it every single day. On top of that, she won’t be ashamed to admit it.

Grown-ups do this stuff: they don’t hide their feelings and they do their best to communicate them in the right way with the people around them.

And it’s not like she’s putting you before her family and friends, but she is doing everything with the thought of the relationship you have and the feelings you share.

If there’s a family dinner, she will invite you to go with her. If she has to go out with her girlfriends, she’ll make sure you know about it and you haven’t planned anything special for both of you yet. No, she won’t ask you for permission, but she will make sure you are okay with it.

10. When a woman loves you she makes you smile

She just makes you smile. She finds her way to communicate with you and make you smile. At least once, every day.

In fact, she believes your happiness and your smile are as important as hers. So she makes your days brighter and better.

And if she does all of the things above – hold her and never let her go, my friend. Because this girl truly loves you, and you’ll never feel alone again as long as you’re together.